“’You shall love your neighbor as yourself” is an often repeated line from the Bible, one that most people would recognize immediately. But knowing something and applying it in your own life are two pretty different things, as most of us have experienced our own, aptly named “neighbor from hell.”
One netizen discovered that her neighbors were basically using her trash cans for everything they didn’t want to place on their own, from old food to dog poop. Both the smell and the entitlement were giving her a real headache, so she decided that enough was enough and got a bit of well-earned revenge.
Trash can etiquette seems like it should be a no brainer
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But one woman shared her experience with horrible neighbors that thought they could just leave rotting food in her garbage
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Humans love revenge stories and like to see some measure of justice done
While some might be inclined to see this sort of revenge as a bit childish, the reality is that humans ultimately see some form of retribution as necessary. “Turn the other cheek,” while popularized by the Bible, was not and practically speaking, is not the standard method of dealing with conflicts. Revenge is a central theme in a variety of media, from “The Count of Monte Cristo,” to more modern variants, like the “John Wick ” movie series. The aforementioned Bible has examples and it features in a number of Shakespeare’s plays. In general, “revenge” is almost a trope for how often it shows up in some characters’ backstory or motivations.
It’s also worth noting that the concept of revenge contains a lot of different variations inside it. On the more negative side, there is revenge as an expression of anger over a slight or some perceived grievance. But humans do have a sense of justice and we tend to have negative emotions about someone “escaping” it. Both of these variants exist to some extent as coping mechanisms for difficulties in life.
Studies have shown that holding in feelings of revenge over a long period of time can produce symptoms similar to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This is not to say that one needs to act upon these feelings, rather, that it’s psychologically unhealthy to leave them untreated and unprocessed. But it’s just as important that some justice is done when there is a real offense. Humans’ sense of justice isn’t just an abstract concept, people “getting away with it” can actually cause real, measurable psychological issues.
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Moving the trash cans was a masterstroke in pettiness
OP did mention that these neighbors had been causing issues for a while, which no doubt informed her decision to take some sort of action. While the subject literally is dog droppings and rotting food, symbolically, it’s an example of “what comes around, goes around,” as the smell, ultimately was caused by the neighbors, OP just moved the trash closer to them. The only thing holding this method back is the unfortunate reality that the neighbors will probably not connect their own actions to the smell descending upon them.
Others brought up ways to protect herself in the future, including a padlock on the garbage bin. While less escalatory, this most likely would also prove a hassle, as it would still need to be left unlocked before garbage day. Similarly, it would also not inflict any harm on the neighbors, who would no doubt continue bothering OP. In the grand scheme of things, her revenge really does fall into the category of petty revenge, which is quite popular online. People do enjoy these tales because they scratch that itch of annoying people and having bad things happen to them, all without excessive amounts of chaos or violence.
This last point, while purely psychological, is still important to consider. Being constantly victimized without taking action can wear down a person’s self-confidence and make them feel unhappy. Even taking small actions, like moving the garbage cans strategically, can alleviate this feeling and help her get back at these neighbors for what seems like a constant stream of annoyances. Now armed with the various bits of advice from the comments, OP should feel more confident at striking back whenever these neighbors do something annoying.
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OP gave some more details and answered questions
Some readers gave her additional ways to get back at these neighbors
Others shared similar stories with rude and entitled people
who throws away half eaten pizzas?? bastards
Right??!! How aggravatingly wasteful. It hurts to even think about people wasting that much food, especially pizza. WTF HUMANS; DO BETTER!
What happened to normal human decency?
theres a pattern to these posts, a lot of people simply don't communicate, I'm sure a lot of these issues would be solved if people just spoke to each other
“I’m going to be a c**t,” isn’t something most people like to communicate when they can instead just be a c**t.
C**t is a euphemism for a part of the female body. When it’s used in reference to a man it sends the signal that he’s “worse and lower than” a woman’s vulva/vagina. Since many men are seeking a return to this particular organ, isn’t this actually an inaccurate slur?
From my experience dîck, cünt and bytch applies to all regardless of gender(or none) and sex.
Interesting!
I understand the point. However, when swearing my go-to question is “Do I want to be rude, graphic or inventive?” Living in the UK there are formal rules marking the gradation of how rude individual swear words are, with c**t at the top/bottom of the list. https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/a809925/ofcom-swear-words-ranking-in-order-of-offensiveness/
who throws away half eaten pizzas?? bastards
Right??!! How aggravatingly wasteful. It hurts to even think about people wasting that much food, especially pizza. WTF HUMANS; DO BETTER!
What happened to normal human decency?
theres a pattern to these posts, a lot of people simply don't communicate, I'm sure a lot of these issues would be solved if people just spoke to each other
“I’m going to be a c**t,” isn’t something most people like to communicate when they can instead just be a c**t.
C**t is a euphemism for a part of the female body. When it’s used in reference to a man it sends the signal that he’s “worse and lower than” a woman’s vulva/vagina. Since many men are seeking a return to this particular organ, isn’t this actually an inaccurate slur?
From my experience dîck, cünt and bytch applies to all regardless of gender(or none) and sex.
Interesting!
I understand the point. However, when swearing my go-to question is “Do I want to be rude, graphic or inventive?” Living in the UK there are formal rules marking the gradation of how rude individual swear words are, with c**t at the top/bottom of the list. https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/a809925/ofcom-swear-words-ranking-in-order-of-offensiveness/